February 10, 2020
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Questions to dig deep:
- What is the most important thing for us to talk about?
- What’s going on relative to this issue?
- How is it impacting you?
- Who else is affected?
- If nothing changes, what are the implications?
- How have you contributed to this situation?
- What is the ideal outcome?
- What is the most potent step you can take to begin resolution?
Debrief this conversation by asking yourself:
- Was I genuinely curious about this person and their reality?
- Did I work to understand reality from where he/she stands?
- Did feelings get expressed?
- What parts of me failed to show up?
- Who did most of the talking?
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